When tackling big, audacious goals, you don’t need big, audacious actions. All you need is the contagious magic of micro-actions.
Let me give you an example.
When I travel for Voyager or that overnight swim meet to watch my son swim, I often don’t feel like exercising, even though I know I’ll feel way better if I do. So, in the morning, I don’t commit to a program to lose 12 pounds in twelve days or promise myself to run for 40 minutes. I just put on my gym clothes. This at least validates why I packed the workout clothes. Already feeling good about myself 😊!
And then, since my gym clothes are on, I almost always decide to just walk to the gym and take a look.
What happens next is what almost always happens when I step into a gym: I see the bikes and think, “I bet it will feel good to get on one of those for a few minutes.” So I do.
And other exercises naturally follow that.
After I exercise, I think, “Man, it would feel great to stretch,” so I do that, too. And then, since I’m on a roll, I decide to eat a healthy breakfast instead of sugary garbage. Later at work, I’m extra productive since my body feels great.
See what I mean about contagious?
There’s a reason 80% of New Year’s Resolutions fail. The problem isn’t the goals, it’s the way we go about trying to tackle them. We try to go big and burn out, forgetting that “slow and steady wins the race.”
The magic here is in breaking down big, hard, sometimes even scary goals into attainable pieces. Find something small and attainable you can do, start there, and let the contagious magic of micro-actions do the rest.
Best Regards, Bob